When did hen parties drift into the realm of phallic shaped party favours, strippers who could do better, and awkwardly executed activities? The sexual revolution of the 60s surely has something to do with it, because while the above scenario could be perfect for some (one woman's delight is another woman's nightmare), some of the conversations we've had of late suggest that many are getting tired of this well trodden formula.
We say veto the heinously over-complicated, avoid cliches as much as possible and never lose sight of the person who you are making all the effort for. She who calls the beach her second home, or the one on a continual zen seeking journey, will likely lust for something that celebrates her unique lifestyle.
Here are three options to kick start the planning stage:
For the adventurer
Take the bride-to-be on an weekend adventure to a surprise outdoor location with Wildernest, a Auckland-based company which specialises in planning creatively styled glamping events in all manner of environments. You and your posse will commit to a dose of fresh air leisure and have quality bonding time to boot. Wildernest's deluxe bell tents are fitted out with luxuries not usually associated with the standard grass roots camping experience. So given you'll be swanning about in unfettered luxury, why not surprise the bride with a specially styled cocktail hour as the sun sets. Serve her favourite tipple, have guests slip into party dresses, and dance the night away under the moon and stars. Midnight ocean skinny dip is practically mandatory.
What to bring: Kaftans, swim suits and a free spirit.
www.wildernest.co.nz
For the city princess
She loves flowers, scented candles and admits to having a major sweet tooth. For this bride-to-be, why not schedule a dainty feast, replete with delicious cakes, canapes, and tea. Jordan Rondel of The Caker, offers beautiful, low key afternoon teas where the focus is on good food and conversation. Less uptight than the sometimes over-the-top hotel version, Jordan will personally make sure you and your guests enjoy an authentic hen's experience. Price is $40-45 per head, and bookings are available only on the weekend.
What to bring: Your prettiest outfit, a fresh manicure and a good appetite.
To find out availability, email your details to
[email protected].
For the yoga warrior
For those who are as committed to their daily green juice as most of us are to the morning coffee, a day yoga retreat could be the answer. Auckland yoga studio The Centre has a beautiful loft space where those in-the-know come to practice their downward dogs. Schedule a restoring yoga class before enjoying healthy post-yoga treats and tonics courtesy of Little Bird Organics, which is housed below the zen-inducing space. Rebecca and her team are accommodating and able to design unique packages to work to every budget or occasion. Perfect for the woman who is beginning to feel swamped by last minute wedding details.
What to bring: Your favourite yoga gear, plenty of water and a mini veil or flower crown for the bride to wear as she attempts a head stand.
www.the-centre.co.nz
